Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCApr 9, 20195 minYou're Probably Doing Self-Care BackwardsWay too often I hear the phrase “take care of yourself” said to someone after they’ve gotten stressed out. That’s all wrong. Self-care...
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCMar 25, 20193 minYour Intentions Matter, But Not More Than Your Impact“I don’t give a damn what you meant by it. You’re being an asshole!” Does that sound familiar? One of the greatest truths I hope you can...
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCMar 18, 20193 minI’m Not Reading Your Mind. 4 Things You Should Know About Good Therapy/ TherapistsI don’t know for certain that there aren’t psychics in the world… ...But I know for certain that I’m not one. I also know that over the...
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCMar 11, 20194 min9 Strategies To Help A Loved One Reclaim Their Agency After TraumaTo have Agency is to have access to choices, control over your actions, and to have a belief that you can choose to act in ways that are...
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCMar 4, 20193 min7 Lessons On Keeping Hope Alive While Healing From Sexual AssaultIf it doesn’t go perfectly, and according to plan then it’s happening all wrong. If it isn’t coming easy then I must not be good enough....
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCFeb 25, 20194 min5 Ways To Help Your Loved One Endure Healing From Sexual AssaultWhen it comes to healing from sexual violence there is no such thing as a quick fix. There are no late night infomercials holding the...
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCSep 11, 20183 min'What' is the Antidote to the Poison of 'Why'“Stop asking Why and start asking What.” That has turned in to my mantra in almost every session with my individual psychotherapy clients....
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCSep 4, 20184 minCourageous VulnerabilitySome moments tip the balance of our lives more than others, and few more so than how we are treated in our moments of vulnerability. This...
Hudson Wilkins, MA, LPCCMay 6, 20185 minThe Un-Wholly Power of JudgementsJudgements hurt the most when they come from the people we respect and trust the most. If they won’t believe and validate us, we tend to...