Way too often I hear the phrase “take care of yourself” said to someone after they’ve gotten stressed out. That’s all wrong. Self-care...

“I don’t give a damn what you meant by it. You’re being an asshole!” Does that sound familiar? One of the greatest truths I hope you can...

I don’t know for certain that there aren’t psychics in the world… ...But I know for certain that I’m not one. I also know that over the...

To have Agency is to have access to choices, control over your actions, and to have a belief that you can choose to act in ways that are...

If it doesn’t go perfectly, and according to plan then it’s happening all wrong. If it isn’t coming easy then I must not be good enough....

When it comes to healing from sexual violence there is no such thing as a quick fix. There are no late night infomercials holding the...

“Stop asking Why and start asking What.” That has turned in to my mantra in almost every session with my individual psychotherapy clients....

Some moments tip the balance of our lives more than others, and few more so than how we are treated in our moments of vulnerability. This...

Judgements hurt the most when they come from the people we respect and trust the most. If they won’t believe and validate us, we tend to...